I’m focusing on night game only , i set myself a life time goal but also yearly goals , i will eventually venture into daytime stuff but i want a rock solid night game ability which is my priority for now !
Update day 249 : Slept with a new woman Friday night , everything flowed effortlessly and had even been drinking quite heavily beforehand as was at a leaving do ! Basic approach and conversation and back to her place at closing time . I think these products have given me a slight edge in regard to not worrying about getting women and not having so much pressure put upon myself. My social skils have rocketed with women as well as my seduction skills .
I was out saturday night , was still tired and shattered from the night before /day after so was not in the mood to chat to girls or dgaf …perhaps from the previois nights success or tiredness in general.
I also have a deep cool self assured confidence that women want me and i dont have to do anything or put much work into getting a woman as i know I have good knowledge and can pick and choose which tools i need in regard to the woman / situation.
Update day 255 :
Something i forgot to mention is that running these subs have driven me towards the choice of becoming self employed and having freedom of choice in regard to my working life and career plans . I left me full time job to work less hours so can do other things and have more work / life balance !
Also i was seeing multiple women at once a few months ago but realised this was sabotaging my seduction long term goals as i became lazy and un motivated to purse new women to a degree and have easily already replaced them with two new ones in under a month !
I obviously still have bad nights out without success but i have no qualms about that whatsoever and understand its part of the entire process and welcome those bad nights as its all learning ! What people need to understand is to rewire decades of bad habbits it will take years to reprogram and btw my age which i have not made known is 37 years old !
Don’t really understand this. You were seeing multiple women once a month and that demotivated you to pursue women?
What i meant is i became lazy with approaching new women as you kinda have in the back of your mind …“i have 3 women on the go etc…why go with effort of working on new girls” … which becomes a crutch / excuse to not keep on improving and actively trying to get new women on a regular basis …this hasn’t been the first time i have juggled multiple women at once …a similar example is if you became comfortable in a job and stop thinking of achieving bigger things or progressing up the ladder etc
Not that this is a bad position to be in. It’s good to be ambitious as long as you have a good reason—avoid the perils of looking for more “just cause!”
Going with the job example, suppose you made $1,000,000 a year. That’s far beyond what most people make a year. Yes, you can do better—now the question is, why? The answer to “why” becomes more and more significant as you achieve more success, less you fall into the trap of perpetually racing to the next thing, shifting goalposts and never quite being content with where you are. I’ve seen that myself as I’ve risen up the career ladder and improved my finances!